The human body is like a powerful factory. It creates its own chemicals to help us feel good. These are called neurotransmitters. When you receive a massage, your body starts to produce these substances naturally. You might feel joy, warmth, or a vibrating energy in every cell. However, this natural process works best when the body is clean. Alcohol and other substances change how the brain works. They interfere with the way we feel pleasure and stay present during a deep experience.
How Alcohol Affects the Brain
Alcohol has a very strong effect on the brain’s pleasure centers. It changes the production of chemicals like dopamine and serotonin. Scientists have found that alcohol quickly increases dopamine levels. This creates a fake feeling of euphoria or a “high.” But there is a catch. When you use alcohol to feel good, the body’s own ability to create joy is suppressed. It stops trying to make these chemicals on its own because the alcohol is doing the work.
The Natural High of Yoni Massage
A yoni massage starts the production of these same “feel-good” substances but in a different way. It does not use chemicals from the outside. Instead, it uses touch, breath, and presence to wake up the body’s natural factory. The proportions of these chemicals are balanced and healthy. In a clean body, this creates a state of deep bliss that feels much better than a fake high. It allows you to feel alive without the foggy feeling that comes with drinking.
Step One: Releasing Nervous Tension
When the body is free of alcohol, the first stage of the massage is slowing down. Most people live in a state of stress called the sympathetic nervous system. This is the “fight or flight” mode. During the session, the body begins to release this tension. You move away from stress and toward peace. This transition is very clear and powerful when your senses are sharp. It is the first step toward a transformative experience.
Entering the Erotic Trance
The second stage is a state called the “erotic trance.” This term describes a feeling of deep relaxation, warmth, and comfort. Your internal dialogue—the busy voice in your head—stops. You enter a state of parasympathetic relaxation. In this zone, time seems to slow down. You feel safe and grounded. This trance is a natural result of the body’s own chemistry working perfectly with the nervous system.
Riding the Energy Swing
The third stage involves a rhythm of acceleration and deceleration. This movement acts like a “swing” between different states of the nervous system. It builds energy and then allows it to settle. This process helps move energy through the entire body. It creates a deep emotional and physical release. However, this sequence is very delicate. It requires your brain and body to be fully connected and responsive to every small change.
How Substances Break the Flow
If the body contains alcohol, this natural sequence breaks. The first stages might happen, but the body gets stuck. The “swing” of energy cannot start properly. The connection between the brain and the muscles is too slow. The person might feel relaxed, but they cannot reach the deeper levels of awareness. The chemicals from the alcohol act like a wall. They block the natural flow of energy before it can truly begin, making it impossible to explore the neurochemistry of intimacy and hormones that naturally support deep somatic connection.
The Struggle with Breath
During a session, I often ask the person to breathe deeply. This is a vital tool for moving energy. But a person under the influence of substances often does not understand simple words like “Breathe deeper” or “Relax your stomach.” Their brain is in a chemical fog. They might try to breathe for a minute, but then they stop. They feel “fine” because of the alcohol, so they do not see the need to do the work required for a real breakthrough.
Why Awareness Matters
When you are not sober, you lose the “why” of the experience. Even if some energy moves, the person often does not understand the emotions that arise. They might feel a release but have no idea what it was about. They forget why they wanted a yoni massage in the first place. Without clear awareness, the massage becomes just a physical event instead of a meaningful journey. You miss the insights that a clean mind can capture.
Preparing for the Best Experience
To get the most benefit and feel the unusual sensations people talk about in reviews, you must be clean. This means no alcohol before the session. It is best to avoid drinking for at least three days, but one week is even better. This gives your body time to reset its natural chemistry. Your factory needs to be ready to work on its own without any outside interference.
Conclusion
The same rule applies to any substance that alters your consciousness. From a chemical point of view, they all act on the same principles. They promise a shortcut to pleasure, but they actually block the path to deep, natural sensitivity. If you want to experience the true power of your body’s energy, come as you are. Trust your own biology to provide the high you are looking for.
