From Olga, co-author of the online course:
Let’s look at two levels of sex and what the criterion for “good sex” is for each of them.
First level
This is sex where the end point is female orgasm.
A friend once told me about her partner: “We have good sex, but I don’t have an orgasm”…
In order to find out what “good sex” is, you need to get an education in this area. There is no other way. Study how it happens, conduct all the experiments on yourself, and ultimately find out how everything works for me.
At this level of sex, foreplay is a tool for a woman to achieve an orgasm. Any course on sexology will tell you about this. And then for level number one, the sex will be good.
Second level
This is when a woman’s orgasm is the beginning of sex.
If we proceed from the concept that sexual energy is the energy of life, and you need to know how to use it, then sex and orgasm are simply the activation of this energy. And the task of the “users” is to manage it and direct it to different areas of their lives.
Let’s assume that at this level a woman is so sensitive that she orgasms without foreplay.
So why foreplay at this level?
How will a girl feel when she had a quick genital or any other orgasm?
She will feel satisfaction only in the second chakra. And at the emotional level, you can earn a very unpleasant state of irritation, emptiness and loss of strength.
At this level, the criteria for “good sex” will be completely different. After good sex of the second level, a woman is filled with impressions in the heart, sensations in the body and pleasure at all her energy levels.
After such sex, the norm is when the following results occur:
- money is earned better;
- new projects are launched;
- the heart is filled with new feelings, you can feel love, joy, admiration more intensely;
- an emotional stress block in the form of tears can come out and some situation from the past can be healed;
- creativity, lightness, playfulness, self-esteem increase. A woman feels like a “goddess”;
- clarity arises in the question or a solution to the problem comes;
- a meditative state may arise, where we feel ourselves as one with the Universe;
- a feeling may arise that two souls have just had sex;
At this level of sex, foreplay is needed to start all the energy processes in the body. And then the orgasm and its types can be controlled.
What is foreplay?
The norm for the duration of foreplay is from 20 minutes for quickly excitable girls to 40 minutes for slowly excitable ones.
And then the question arises – what to do these 20-40 minutes. In order to do foreplay for 20-40 minutes, you need to know different ways of “how”.
One of the best options for foreplay is tantric massage. What does it give? It includes the whole body, relieves tension. And then during sexual intercourse, sexual energy freely moves throughout the body, filling every cell of the body. And fills our energy centers and activates them.
Where do they teach this?
Our online course about yoni massage shows a very high-quality tantric massage that lasts an hour. It is ideal for foreplay. It is organized in such a way that you can take any of its fragments and combine them to suit your needs and time.
For example, we need a 20-minute foreplay. You can do a head massage and a foot massage. And another time – a buttocks massage. Or any other combination.
If a girl is already familiar with all parts of the massage, she can tell you which part of her body is most tense today and wants attention.
Result
If I have sex without foreplay, then I feel the activation of male energy. If with foreplay, then the activation of female energy.
Foreplay can be a tool for different purposes, but for a woman’s sexual nature it is a necessity.
It gives a girl luxurious internal states and fills the couple with energy.