The media and adult films create an “ideal image” of what female organs should look like.
Because of this, many girls (especially young girls who have no one to discuss such details with) feel as if they don’t fit this ideal, that something is wrong with them, and that it needs to be surgically corrected.
There is no such thing as an ideal. Appearance varies greatly from person to person—size, shape, placement, color. Even texture differs—smooth or wrinkled. These variations are natural, just like differences in facial features or body type.
And since the ideal does not exist, throw away all complexes and start loving yourself as you are.
How can you do this?
The first step is to look at what different, imperfect people look like. I recommend the website:
The name translates as “gynecological diversity.” This is a website where anyone can submit three photos of themselves, which are then added to a shared gallery. You can see what dozens of people look like. That same diversity—size, shape, placement, color.
The second step is to carefully examine yourself in a mirror or on your phone. See that you are who you are. Without comparing yourself to others, without comparing yourself to some non-existent ideal. Hundreds of women who come for massages have never looked at themselves in such detail and don’t really know where, what, or how.
The third step is to wash your hands and begin self-examination.
The website “Slowly and Smoothly” offers an online course on yoni massage, which explains how to explore all the points. It’s a complete guide to self-discovery.
Don’t just lie there in the direction of your dreams. Move. Explore. Study. Enjoy. And rejoice.
