If we believe in the seven-chakra model, the fourth chakra is responsible for love and acceptance. Primarily, it’s about self-love and self-acceptance in any situation. When this happens, it becomes possible to love others abundantly.
Because many in today’s world have unlearned self-love, it’s precisely the rising energy that stops at the heart center during the massage.
Try to assess the approximate stage the woman is at:
- If it’s “physically painful” — we reduce the impact.
- If it’s the “controller,” leading to hand spasms — we reduce the impact.
- If we sense emotions surging, yet the girl simply doesn’t allow herself to express them — we intensify the process: speaking out a magical phrase to her.
At this moment, the girl is in a slightly altered state of consciousness, with perception functions of external information slightly dulled.
Self-non-love manifests in two ways:
- Didn’t want to but did it.
- Wanted to but didn’t do it.
Therefore, the phrase should be as simple and understandable as possible and address this lack of self-love.
For instance, the phrase could be:
“Release everything that’s surfacing now. Allow all emotions that arise to flow. Don’t hold onto them. Let go of situations where you didn’t listen to yourself and did what you didn’t want to do. Let go of situations where you heard yourself but didn’t do what you wanted to do. Now — it’s permissible. Now, it’s safe.”
Often, following this, such a stream of tears and catharsis begins that new pieces of tissue need to be brought for several minutes. Without attempting to calm these tears. Without trying to suppress or shove them back in.
Other details of the massage are described in the online course about yoni massage.
