The final stage of a session is very good for healing. The active part of the yoni massage ends. A skilled practitioner slowly removes their fingers. Now is the time to watch the deep energy flow.
Her body holds a massive amount of moving internal energy. You must read the signs of her delicate nerve system.
Every single woman reacts quite differently to this deep release. Some bodies feel silent and totally still after the touch. Other female bodies vibrate with intense waves and deep tears. The practitioner must decide the best next step to support her.
Reading the Energy Stuck Versus Flowing
Reading the inner energy flow takes great skill and patience. You must actively feel if the vital life force moves freely.
If you sense that the deep pelvic energy is stuck, change your approach. You can shift to the Big Draw in Yoni Massage. This deep practice moves the trapped tension up into the body.
If the active life force flows well, you will see clear signs. The resting body might shake, or the woman might cry. When an emotional release happens naturally, you can safely enhance it. We use the simple butterfly exercise for this exact body purpose.
The History of Tremoring in Body Therapy
The science of deep body shaking has a very rich history.
The body doctor Alexander Lowen used this natural truth first. Lowen created special stress poses to trigger muscle tremors on purpose.
Later, Robert Sapolsky explained this natural process beautifully in his books. He wrote about why wild zebras do not get stomach ulcers. The scientist noticed that wild animals shake to release trauma.
Finally, Dr David Berceli developed the modern trauma releasing exercises (TRE). Berceli made simple nerve shaking an easy tool for global healing.
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The Anatomy of a Nerve Tremor
Understanding the body anatomy of shaking helps a practitioner support women.
A nerve tremor is a deeply natural response to intense muscle stress. The simple butterfly exercise puts a specific load on the pelvic tissues. It directly wakes up the inner thigh adductors and the deep psoas muscle. The long psoas muscle connects the lower spine to the upper thigh bone.
When these vital deep muscles reach muscle fatigue, the brain takes over. The sympathetic nerve system safely drops its trapped survival energy. This automatic body process creates profound self healing without any mental effort.
Setting Up the Butterfly Exercise
Setting up the simple butterfly pose is very easy but deeply important.
- The resting woman is still lying safely on her back on table. Ask her gently to slowly bend both of her legs at the knees. Her bent knees should form an angle of ninety degrees for success.
- Instruct her carefully to place the flat soles of both feet firmly down. Her feet should rest very nicely side by side on the soft surface.
- Make sure her lower back feels totally safe and completely relaxed always. She must feel secure in this open pose before you proceed.
Triggering the Shake Bit by Bit
Triggering the nerve tremor requires patience and very slow bodily movement.
Ask the woman to begin opening her bent knees outward to the sides. The absolute key here is total slowness during the entire opening movement. She must move bit by bit without ever rushing the delicate process. The goal is to slowly search for a very specific angle of tension.
At a certain point of knee opening, a strong natural reaction may occur. Her tired legs will suddenly begin to shake and vibrate in a wild way. This sudden shaking means the deep muscle has started its release.
Holding Space for the Wild Shake
Your main job as a skilled practitioner is simply holding a safe space. When the strong nerve tremor begins, you must never block it. Do not ever try to hold her shaking legs or stop the rapid moving.
Simply ask the releasing woman to stay exactly in that specific leg pose. Encourage her gently to let her legs shake wildly for several long minutes. The physical body knows exactly how to heal its own deep hidden pelvic trauma.
Your calm presence provides the vital safe energy she truly needs right now. Just breathe deeply and observe her profound release safely.
Reassuring the Client Through an Unusual Feeling
Many women feel deeply surprised by this sudden intense and wild reaction. Losing conscious control of their own shaking legs can feel quite scary initially. A sudden wild tremor is a highly strange feeling for most normal people.
You must actively use a very soft and highly calming voice to comfort her. Tell her very clearly that everything happening is absolutely wonderful and perfectly natural. She needs to hear that her physical reactions are totally safe and expected.
Your calm verbal support helps her busy mind relax and fully trust the shaking. Deep trust allows the heavy tension to melt away entirely.
Adjusting the Pose if the Tremor Fades
Sometimes the wild and rapid tremor will fade away very quickly and fully stop. If the shaking legs become totally still, you can easily help her again.
Ask the woman to slowly change the exact angle of her legs slightly. She can actively try opening her bent knees a tiny bit wider to search. Instead, she can begin to slowly bring her heavy knees back together bit by bit. Very often, the deep nerve tremor will suddenly start again during the upward movement.
The exact perfect angle for shaking changes constantly as tight muscles release tension. You simply guide her body to seek its own balance.
Closing the Somatic Loop
The final physical step is highly crucial for deep and profound emotional healing. When the intense rapid shaking finally stops naturally, the deep body work is done. Ask the relaxed woman to slowly straighten her tired legs and lay completely flat.
She deeply needs time to simply rest and quietly observe the brand new feelings. This quiet resting phase allows the entire nerve system to fully absorb the shift. Proper physical rest makes the entire session deeply effective and truly lasting for months.
To learn more about this final stage, read about the proper way to conclude a healing session safely. This peaceful body closure honors her deep journey completely.
