Sometimes this question comes up. The answer is very simple:
Imagine that during the massage your partner is nearby and sees everything.
How will you feel? How will they feel? Would you want to change anything in your behavior?
If you don’t feel okay and you want to drastically change what’s happening or even cancel it altogether, it’s cheating. If everything is okay and you’re ready to continue, it’s not cheating.
I follow the same principle in massage. That’s why the description of yoni massage in Kyiv describes the massage process in detail. The section on respecting boundaries is clearly outlined — massage, only massage, and nothing but massage.
I’ve demonstrated this thousands of times. Those who didn’t read the description and tried to demand a familiar and understandable physiological act instead of an energetic practice were dissatisfied.
I’ve demonstrated this dozens of times during training sessions — when a guy or girl is learning to give a massage, I don’t need to change the actions described in the description.
The definition of cheating varies greatly from person to person. And because of this, there are different cases in practice.
Sometimes a woman spends the entire session suffering from the thought, “I’m tired of this relationship, I need a break.” At the exit, she’s met by her unloved partner, who tracked her down, assumed she was seeing her lover, created a scene, and suddenly transformed from unloved into deeply loved.
It also happens that a husband brings his wife for a massage and thanks me for the incredible changes they both feel as a result of the massage, which significantly strengthens their relationship.
An interesting topic for reflection, I recommend you think about it.
Other details of the massage are described in the online course about yoni massage.
