Originally, yoni massage emerged as a tantric practice aimed at awakening energy within the body and moving this energy upward. The fundamental principles of Tantra:
- Breath;
- Sound;
- Movement.
This is precisely what we’ll be focusing on during the massage.
During the instruction and at the start of the massage, I explained several times the need for deep but relaxed abdominal breathing.
We begin the massage. The woman breathes. The initial stages of “Slowly and smoothly” — parasympathetic relaxation — set in. It’s a pretty euphoric state that some women haven’t experienced in a while.
If the woman continues to breathe, I’ll be “kind, gentle, and calm” — I won’t say a word. If, due to pleasant sensations, she drifts off and stops breathing, I’ll be “firm, strict, and assertive” — constantly reminding her: BREATHE!
And bringing her attention back to her body.
During the transition from the general body massage to the yoni massage, the woman may experience body movements. If it happens naturally, I won’t say anything. If, for some reason, the woman engages in movements typical for her as a “passionate lover” – I ask her to relax. I don’t force intentional movement.
As we approach the end, with increased energy, we move it upward through the woman’s body. The energy reaches the throat. If the woman allows herself to sound and let this energy pass through — I won’t say a word.
Sometimes, body movement starts, but only partially — the pelvis moves, the upper body remains still, and the jaw is clenched to suppress any sound. In this case, I ask the woman to yawn and make some sounds and demonstrate how to do it. If she’s ready — it’s easy for her to do so. If the “good girl syndrome” is too strong — I won’t insist.
The more you allow yourself to hear my words, the more powerful the tantric interaction process will be.
There are massages and massage therapists where you can come, lie down, do nothing, and experience the state you’ve been in before.
But if you don't just want to lie down and feel good, but are ready to breathe, make sounds, move, and thereby help your body enter different, new, unusual, unexplored states — welcome to the professional yoni massage!
Other details of the massage are described in the online course about yoni massage.
