Men who come to me for yoni massage training are brave, determined, ready to learn…
And tough.
Incapable of switching to different states.
Tantra massage consists of four types of movements, four elements: Earth, Water, Fire, Air. The student must immerse himself in these states. The student must lead the girl through these states.
Earth and Fire are “male” elements. Usually there are no problems here. Strength, heaviness, rudeness, persistence, the ability to achieve their goals are easy for men.
Water and Air are “female”. It is difficult for men to switch to these states. Smoothly flowing Water, gliding Air, light as a feather – no, never, under any circumstances.
No less than 20 times I have to repeat the phrase "relax your hand". No less than 30 times - "slowly, without sudden movements".
And again and again show. I demonstrate each movement, the student repeats, I control and correct. We stretch the breath, slow down the movements, remove the fuss.
We turn off the sympathetic nervous system, responsible for stress, turn on the parasympathetic nervous system, responsible for rest, relaxation, feeling.
Slowly and smoothly, the student’s movements enter the desired rhythm and there is no need to correct anything else. The process of tantric interaction between God and Goddess is activated. All I have to do is step aside and not interfere.
As a result, it is incredibly pleasant to watch how at the end of the training everything turns out as it should.
Other details of the massage are described in the online course about yoni massage.
